BostonMaria
BostonMaria(mariag002) avatar
**4 years relaxer free as of Nov 30, 2010!**

Black Dominican female that transitioned from relaxed hair to 100% natural hair. I'm having fun on Fotki making new friends and learning so much about my hair. I've learned that we have beautiful hair that God has given us and we need to embrace it.

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Last relaxer: Nov. 30, 2006
Little Chop: April 2007
Big Chop: Sept. 23, 2007

Hair type: Crazy! 3b/3c (I try not to get into the hair typing too much)
CURRENT LENGTH: Waist Length
GOALS FOR 2011: My goal is to continue growing, taking care of my ends and not trimming my hair until the end of 2011. My goal is to be touching hip length by the end of the year. Next year I will be in maintenance mode and will probably get a 1 inch trim.

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I'm not the hair police LOL but I don't relax my hair and I'm on a mission to help women of color let go of the creamy crack. if you are thinking of not relaxing your hair anymore please feel free to contact me for advice or help transitioning!!!!! If you DO relax your hair, you're my sister in Christ and I still love and respect you :-)

For those of you transitioning... doing the "big chop" might be a little scary. I know that the fear of having short hair is what stopped me from having natural hair.. but lemme tell ya it is the most liberating feeling in the whole world. Whoever doesn't like my nappy hair can basically kiss my ass LOL I play with my curls all day, I love the feeling and texture of my hair. Its funny because I thought I would miss my old hair and I don't. After 9 months of transitioning I felt very bitter about my relaxed ends. I felt like it was in my way and not really my hair. So to me it felt natural to cut it off, it was like cutting off a piece of my life that just didn't suit me anymore. Like if I was wearing a wig. Plus I was afraid that it would hinder my progress. Now my natural hair is growing like a weed LOL and I haven't looked back since. I look forward to having long hair again, but this time on MY terms.

Hope you enjoy my transitioning pictures, big chop pictures, and my new long hair journey. I also have a blog about my progress, I did it mainly for anybody out there that wants to transition so they can "see" with their own eyes how it all happened for me. Tambien lo hice para todas las Latinas que quieren crecer su pelo natural y no saben como hacerlo. Espero que puedan aprender algo de mi.

Take care and God bless you. Cuidense y que Dios lo bendiga.

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My WINTER hair regimen:

1. I co-wash once a week. If I use shampoo (1x a month) to clarify, I'll use Come Clean by Kinky Curly.
2. Normally I use Aubrey Organics Honeysuckle Rose. I sometimes use Dominican deep conditioners like Diez en Uno, La Bomba, Crece Pelo, or something with Sabila (aloe vera)
3. I dye my hair with Tints of Nature, which I buy at Whole Foods or the Vitamin Shoppe. I stopped using commercial dye because its too harsh for my hair.
4. I use Aphogee protein treatments on my hair when I feel I need it.
5. I rollerset my hair once a week, use a bonnet hair dryer to dry my hair, then flat iron on a low setting. I always use a hair serum before applying any heat. I don't blow dry or use a curling iron.
6. When I give my hair a rest from rollersetting and heat, I leave it in a ponytail and use natural Aloe Vera gel, EcoStyler Gel, or Tresemme mousse.
7. I love Tresemme Naturals to co-wash or as a regular conditioner. I will use a deep conditioner first then follow up with a leave-in conditioner.
8. I'm also using Amla Powder to help grow my hair, protect it, and make it strong.
9. I'm all about natural products now. If I can't eat it I don't want it in my hair LOL Here are some of my favorite natural recipes: http://styles101.homestead.com/nathairrec.html#anchor_35822 I am always experimenting with natural products. Right now I'm loving Aloe Vera Gel on my hair instead of regular gel. I use Henna and plant based hair dyes from Whole Foods to color my hair. If I need a deep oil treatment I use the products that are already in my kitchen - extra virgin olive oil, coconut oil, and honey.
10. I love avocado butter! Its great for my skin, hair and lips. I also love shea butter, mango butter (altho its gritty) and sweet almond butter. I will either buy it unrefined or from Afroveda.

UPDATE: I hardly buy products anymore. My PJ days are pretty much over. I'm a Hair Junkie and I can't stop
My favorite and funniest quote from Suburbanbushbabe "If I wasn't buying hair products I'd be buying crack (JK)" I swear I must spend like $100 a month on products. Its just so much fun buying products and experimenting on my beautiful natural hair!

I buy my Amla and other Indian powders at http://www.ayurnaturalbeauty.com/ I also just go to the Indian stores in the Boston area
I buy my Dominican hair products locally at the local bodegas/beauty supplies here in Boston or Lynn, but you can also buy it at http://www.roundbrushhair.com
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Since:
Friday, May 18, 2007
Gender:
Female gender
Age:
41
Languages:
English and Spanish
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Married
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Proud parent
Education:
College graduate
Ethnicity:
Latino/Hispanic
Origin:
Dominican
Religion:
Christian - other
Interests & Personality
Interests:
All things hair!
Sports:
All Boston sports - Red Sox Nation member, Go Pats! Go Celtics!
Music:
House music all night long, Neo-Soul, Trance, Reggaeton
Movies:
Hitman, The Matrix (all 3), any type of idiotic comedy
Television:
Heroes and Lost
Heroes:
Jesus, my grandma, Oprah and Wonderwoman (not necessarily in that order)
Books:
Favorite authors: Gabriel Garcia Marquez, Stephen King, Pablo Neruda, and Khaled Hosseini
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